Women's Issues - Sept 2001 discuss article
Do We Honour Our Women or Degrade them?
Janet Gentles
Music tells us something about ourselves as a people.
What are the lewdness, profanity, and, in particular, the sexual innuendoes
directed against women by some dancehall artistes saying? Is this degradation
of women truly reflecting our Caribbean culture? Does it show respect
for our current and future mothers? Or, is it that many enjoy seeing which
artiste can be 'badder' than the rest?
Traditionally men see themselves as leaders of, and sometimes
as being superior to, women. Do those who purposefully go out of their
way to degrade women think that they can earn respect by 'dissing' mothers,
daughters and sisters? Would they appreciate it if others spoke of the
women in their own families in this way? Apparently these considerations
are not foremost in their minds. In a recent article in the Jamaican 'Star'
upcoming star Alozade said "Yellow Man big, what yuh think mek him
big. Shabba big what yuh think mek him big, sex sells, yuh affi give dem
it, as raw as it is."
In the same article Bounty Killer is reported as saying
"As long as people like it (slack songs) you will have it. It's the
type of people and the moral standards that exist. As long as there is
a market for it, it will exist, because people love sex and so people
will sing about it." Undoubtedly people love sex but perhaps a page
needs to be taken from the Calypso giants like Sparrow who produced songs
like 'Big Bamboo,' 'Bang Bang Lulu,' and 'My Pussin.' They demonstrated
far more skill as song writers as they managed to capture the fun loving
sense of humor of the Caribbean people while, at the same time, managing
to be very suggestive with totally 'innocent' songs.
Truly great songs uplift us; they touch something inside.
This, perhaps more that anything else, was what gave Bob Marley's music
such enduring quality. Who can listen carefully to the words of such songs
as 'No Woman No Cry' and 'One Love' and not appreciate their message?
The words we speak truly reflect what is in our hearts and who we are
as people.
Fortunately for dancehall there are a number of artistes,
including Warrior King, Capleton, Luciano, Buju Banton, and Tony Rebel
who see their mission as being the uplifting of women. In his song 'Virtuous
Woman' Warrior King says "a good woman is essential to a man's purpose
and his missions, a good woman is a glory to her man, she will never take
his power, she will just make him a better man.' Capleton, who refers
to 'Black Woman' as 'Mother of the Earth,' often says "Never yuh
dis Mother Earth, bwoy wise." Again, Ritchie Stephens, in an interview
with the Gleaner, said "Women to me are like flowers, they help to
beautify the world. It's very simple. A woman plays a very important role
in a man's life, when a woman is around there is so much beauty. It's
not hard to compliment the ladies."
Most self respecting men, as well as women, soon get tired
of the degradation of the feminine sex by some who are quick to call them
such things as 'hoes' and 'bitches' with far too great a frequency. Perhaps
those artistes who seek fame and fortune by dragging women through the
mud should take a look at what is happening to the charts. Perhaps they
will notice there the increasing popularity of conscious lyrics. We, as
the Caribbean people, are justly proud of our heritage and culture. That
culture is expressed to the world in the music of our people. Maybe it
would be useful to reflect on who we are as a people today and what we
really want to tell the world, our children and our grandchildren about
ourselves.
| Name: | jbonnie | From: | | Comments: I totally agree with this article. There are some songs which are not only in thmselves degrading, but encouraging others to follow suit. The following quote, I think best explains the solution to the problem:"..Maybe it would be useful to reflect on who we are as a people today and what we really want to tell the world....about ourselves." This truly says it all.
9/1/2001 6:03:11 PM |
| Name: | happy2Bnappy | From: | South Florida | Comments: I disagree with this article, and all articles that seem to imply that mere marketing prerogatives of record companies or performers can "degrade" women. It degrades you only if you accept it as a true commentary on your life. It is about making money. It is not the only entertainment option available, and it is not even the most popular. I would not sweat this.
9/1/2001 9:49:34 PM |
| Name: | Akilah | From: | Maryland | Comments: I agree with this article as well. Just like with any other type of music, any content that degrades women should be unacceptable to all! If you choose to accept it or not is irrelevant. There are always so many excuses why such behavior is "acceptable". If we all learned respect for ourselves and for others then positivity would sell. When will "we" as a people stand up and take charge of determining what is acceptable and stop letting others tell us and teach our children that it is okay to accept degrating entertainment or to simply turn the other cheek if they don't agree?
9/1/2001 11:21:36 PM |
| Name: | Ruthlyn Greenfield-Webster, RN | From: | Yonkers, NY | Comments: I think that some Caribbean women degrade themselves more so than the songs that the artists sing. I don't know if the songs perpetuate it or vice versa, but I'm a Jamaican woman and I have been appalled at how I see my "sisters" dress at the clubs (I wouldn't even dare wear some of the attires to bed with my husband) and in public, and the way they handle themselves in public (cursing and carrying on for no reason when they have a problem with something or someone instead of handling things like a WOMAN), etc. And I'm not speaking of the young ones. I excuse them because they probably don't know any better, but the adults have no excuse. When I see these things happening, it makes me ashamed to be associated with them as a Jamaican woman. And personally, I think regardless of the lyrics to a song, the individual is ultimately the one who determines whether or not they will allow themselves to be degraded. IF YOU ACT IN A DEGRADING MANNER, YOU WILL BE DEGRADING YOURSELF.
9/2/2001 1:16:05 AM |
| Name: | Bettyann Annamunthodo | From: | | Comments: Well this is my first time reading the article.I enjoyed what I read and I think its a shame some men have to refer to women as hoes and bitches.If there is nothing I hate more its a man refering to a woman as a bitch,I think its crude and very degrading to women of all nationality.
9/2/2001 4:19:36 PM |
| Name: | Wisdom | From: | Jamaica | Comments: I for one found the article to be right on the money. I don't see what glory some of these artists get out of dis-respecting women. I know these same artists would go to war with anyone that refered to their Mother,Aunt or sister in that fashion. Then why are they promoting it. It's time we come back to the conscious lyrics of Bob and Dennis. It is a woman that give yuh life and a woman that gives you strength. Just remember all the strong Caribean women in your life that was there when you needed them. Do you think they appreciate the dis-respect.
9/3/2001 4:28:53 PM |
| Name: | OPAL A DAVIS | From: | JAMAICA | Comments: I am in agreement with the article. We need to stop moving and grooving to the usually catchy rhythms of these lewd songs. As women we must send a clear message to the radio stations and promoters that they have to come with clean lyrics.
9/8/2001 2:09:57 PM |
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